Child Custody Lawyer New Jersey – Parenting Time That Prioritizes Your Family

If you're navigating a custody matter in New Jersey, you're likely searching for answers, stability, and someone who understands what’s at stake. As a child custody lawyer in New Jersey, we help parents across Bergen County and beyond develop parenting time agreements that reflect their children’s best interests while protecting their rights.


Whether you're just beginning the custody process, modifying an agreement, or dealing with a dispute, our firm offers the clarity and advocacy you need—every step of the way.

Understanding Legal vs. Physical Custody in NJ

In New Jersey, custody is divided into two main parts:

  • Legal Custody: This refers to a parent’s right to make important decisions about the child’s upbringing—such as education, medical care, and religion. Most families share joint legal custody, though not always.

  • Physical Custody: This defines where the child lives day-to-day. Physical custody may be joint or primarily with one parent, with the other having scheduled parenting time.

Courts prioritize what’s in the “best interests of the child”, considering everything from the child’s needs to the parents’ ability to communicate and cooperate.

Parenting Time & Visitation Schedules That Work

Parenting time—often called visitation—defines when each parent spends time with the child. Some families opt for standard alternating weekends and holidays, while others build custom schedules that reflect school calendars, extracurriculars, or religious observances.



From Tenafly to Teaneck, no two families are the same, and parenting time plans should reflect that. Whether you’re negotiating during a divorce or adjusting a schedule years later, we help build plans that are practical, flexible, and child-focused.

Building Custody Agreements That Reduce Conflict

Ideally, custody and parenting time are resolved through mutual agreement. When that’s possible, we’ll help you draft a clear, enforceable Custody Agreement that leaves no room for misinterpretation down the line.


If parents can’t agree, the court will decide. This may involve hearings, custody evaluations, and even appointing a guardian ad litem in some cases. No matter the route, we advocate firmly for your parental rights while keeping your child’s well-being front and center.

What New Jersey Courts Consider When Deciding Custody

Custody decisions in New Jersey are based on a long list of factors, including:

  • The child’s age, needs, and relationship with each parent
  • Each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other
  • The stability of the child’s current home or school
  • Any history of domestic violence or substance abuse
  • The child’s preference (especially if they’re older)

We use this framework to present your case persuasively and prepare you for how the judge will evaluate the situation.

When Circumstances Change: Disputes & Modifications

Custody doesn’t always stay the same. If your schedule changes, your child’s needs evolve, or your ex isn’t following the agreement, you may need a formal modification. We handle Post-Judgment Motions to help you update custody or parenting time orders.


If you’re in the middle of a disagreement, we also represent clients in custody mediation, litigation, and enforcement matters. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Relocation & Moving Out of State with a Child

Thinking about moving with your child out of New Jersey? You’ll need court permission if the other parent doesn’t agree. These relocation cases are legally complex and emotionally charged. We’ve helped parents present strong relocation requests—or challenge them—to protect what matters most. (Learn more on our Relocation page.)

A Balanced, Child-Centered Approach

We understand the emotional toll custody disputes can take. Our role is to guide, advocate, and help you make smart, informed decisions that support your child’s well-being. With years of experience in Bergen County family court and surrounding communities like Englewood, Ridgewood, and Paramus, we know what matters to local families—and how to fight for what matters to you.

Frequently Asked Questions About Custody & Parenting Time

  • How do courts decide child custody in New Jersey?

    Courts use the “best interests of the child” standard, which includes many factors—like the child’s age, the parents’ relationship with the child, stability, and ability to cooperate. No single factor outweighs the rest.

  • Can a child choose which parent to live with in NJ?

    The child’s preference can be considered—especially as they get older—but it’s not the only factor. The judge will weigh the preference in the context of the child’s maturity and overall best interests.

  • Can custody agreements be changed later?

    Yes. If there’s been a significant change in circumstances (like a new job schedule or concerns about safety), you can request a modification through a post-judgment motion.

  • Do I need a lawyer for a custody agreement if we’re getting along?

    Yes. Even in amicable situations, a lawyer ensures the agreement is legally sound, enforceable, and clearly reflects your intent—helping prevent future problems.

Speak with a Child Custody Attorney Who Puts Your Family First

If you're dealing with a custody issue in New Jersey—or just want to understand your options—contact our Bergen County custody lawyers today. We’re here to help you protect your child, your rights, and your peace of mind.